Title kind of says it all. My (26f) and husband (26m) have an okay sex life. He works a couple different jobs, works over time as part of an organization at his work. Every other weekend I see him for approximately 2-3 hours all weekend. But during the week, we both are a little more tired due to our every day lives and sometimes sex just doesn’t happen. We have been trying to conceive so we are trying to make a better effort to have sex. And I do wish we started doing that sooner (before trying to conceive). However, I try to make an effort to give him a blow job in between having sex, even tho we are trying to have a baby. He kind of hints that he likes the feeling of that more. Regardless, everytime I do, he just scrolls on his phone. He watches tik toks or reads posts or scrolls on X. It’s never about ‘us’ having an intimate moment with each other. I’m not sure if this is a normal thing, so if it is, some one please tell me. However, I feel like I’m inconveniencing him.
