Recently i found out (from my ex) that he and my best friend secretly got freaky over the phone the night after we all hung out. I’ve communicated a lot with my best friend about my ex (who i’ve been broken up with for over three months) and how he really destroyed me mentally. I assumed the feeling was mutual for our disliking of him even tho he still hangs out with us. He asked me if my best friend told me about the night before to which i acted confused but not confused- she had not told me anything but i also wanted him to tell me what happened. Finally he gave in and told me. My reaction was considerably bad. I did not know how to process that at all, i actually thought it was a joke. They had tried to intentionally keep it from me all day even after i had hung out and ate lunch with them prior. I felt like an absolute fool. The catch- my ex had spoken to me numerous times about how his ex did the exact same thing. Got freaky with his best friend who he no longer is in contact with for that reason. Im mostly extremely disappointed and disgusted with my ex, not completely shocked. Hes incredibly horny. My best friend on the other hand, I’m destroyed. I’ve known her my entire life, i see her four days a week. If she liked him i wish she’d rather tell me than just try to keep it from me. I just don’t understand and im incredibly exhausted. I feel like im overreacting or overthinking it because yeah we are broken up. But for some reason i just can’t shake the fact that i feel incredibly betrayed. (We are all freshmen’s in college) AIO?
